Healthy Selfishness

A cool concept to learn to lead a happy life

Alright, let's dive into a topic that's often misunderstood that : GIVING. We all know it's a good thing, right? But here's the kicker, we've misunderstood it to the point where we're practically giving away bits of our soul. And guess what? It's not just about money. Oh no, it's about time, values, effort, and that precious thing called self.

The Asian Thing: Putting Others First

Now, here's the scoop in many Asian countries (and honestly, everywhere else too) – we're pros at putting others ahead of ourselves. Why? Because we're scared of rocking the boat or fear of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out). It could be our family, coworkers, or even our buddies they often end up taking the front seat in our lives.

Healthy Selfishness: Not Just a Catchy Phrase

But wait, what if I told you there's a better way? It's called "Healthy Selfishness." It's not about being a narcissist, it's about putting yourself on the priority list. Imagine that! It's all about crafting your principles and priorities.

Your Papa's Epic Rant Over a Long Distance Cousin

You've probably witnessed this scenario, your dad losing it over some distant cousin's complaints . Now, think about it. Is it worth all that drama? Nope. It's time to embrace that healthy selfishness and give value to your mom or your own peace of mind by understanding simple logic that this cousin the people who stay in house should be valued

Life's a Carousel, My Friend

Here's the deal people come and go in our lives. It's a fact. And the more you give, the sneakier that part of your brain becomes, the one that expects something in return. So, let's chat about priorities and boundaries. Never go out of your way to help anyone if it means sacrificing your well being. Have some standards, grow ethically, and add value to society without losing yourself in the process.

So, there you have it a crash course in healthy selfishness. It's not just a fancy buzzword it's a lifeline. It's about time we stopped giving at the cost of ourselves and started putting our well-being front and center. Because guess what?

You matter too.